April

It's the last month of my undergraduate career. I find myself wishing I had already been accepted into a graduate program (although that would require knowledge of what I want to study) just so that I could ease off my perfectionist pressure when it comes to grades.

Alas. I have not.

If all comes crumbling down in the next 3 weeks of my existence, I can always fall back on I was planning a wedding!

Also I have two jobs AND an internship.

Except that the two jobs add up to 9 hrs/week on a good week. And the internship is... far less than that.

But those are unnecessary details.

So. Although I should be reading about public and civil religion in the 1950s, or about the political development of Argentina, or writing about Harper Lee's Go Set a Watchman, I'm going to write real quickly about General Conference!

Women 8 years old to however-old-you-can-manage-to-live gathered to listen to Mormon leaders two weeks ago. This conference happens every six months, but lately I have been craving the sisterhood I felt on my mission, and that made this experience so much more special to me. The conference was in Utah and broadcast live around the world. As we were singing the opening hymn, I thought All of my mission companions are singing this too, RIGHT NOW. I even sent out a text to a small group of my former mission companions:

Rlly excited bc we're all singing the same song rn

It's a unity I've been missing. I miss having another girl always at my elbow to catch all my really funny jokes and to talk with about our futures and fears and plans and privileges. I miss sleepovers every night of the week, even when all we did was climb into our respective bunk, pull the covers over our heads and go straight to sleep.

And this conference was the closest I've felt to that in a long time. As I thought about, I realized how cool this women's organization is. It's an organization for women, started by women, led by women, with an all-women membership. How unique is that?! Women looking out for the needs of women. Women providing relief for the needs of women.

#girlpower

Trying to be like Jesus

There's a rally on Monday. The description of the event on Facebook is this:

This rally is in response to recent hate literature distributed in Lexington. Specifically, these were fliers encouraging white citizens to embrace "white power" by contacting the KKK. We who organized this rally are appalled by such blatant hate and fearmongoring in our community. We must take a stand against white supremacy, anti-blackness, and anti-Semitism that groups like the KKK represent. We invite all concerned residents of Lexington and the surrounding area to attend a rally to explicitly rebuke such attempts to create an atmosphere of hate and fear. Speakers from local religious, educational, and governmental organizations will be present, as well as performances from local musicians.

A class I took on the Holocaust and on why and how it happened last semester really encouraged me to be more active and vocal in standing up for others. Colin told me about the event, and I invited a few people to attend and shared a post about it on my Facebook wall. Today I was tagged in this post by one of my Facebook friends:

If you are in the Lexington, Buena Vista, or Lynchburg area, I encourage you to attend this event. This is precisely the reason that I withdrew from Southern Virginia University. I used to think that I wanted to live in Virginia, until I got a taste of the dense racism that exists there first hand during my freshman year of college. When I would express my concerns to my peers, and even school faculty (all white people), they "didn't know what I was talking about", and the school even asked me to take down a Facebook status about my concerns because "it was giving the school a negative image". Thank you Lauren Hafen and Colin S. Smith for sharing this event and for not only being conscious of these issues, but for being advocates of change.

And that post really made me pause. I hadn't thought I was doing much of anything-- I was just trying. But when it's something people care about, something they're looking for, they notice! And to that person or those people, it's a big deal.

Blogfamous

In this week's blog news, I'm famous again!

This time it's because I wrote a post, AND because my face is in it.

Voyez:

Photo by Sarah Bench for Southern Virginia University. See link below.

And here's the link:

http://scoop.svu.edu/phi-alpha-theta-spring-induction/

I just like to document when my head is on the university's homepage. Ignore my bajillion tabs-- I don't like closing things.

Women

Walking home after nine tonight, I found myself in front of two disgruntled guys. They were talking about a woman for whom they evidently didn't care. To describe how offensively radical this ridiculous woman is, they included in their description of her that she was probably a feminist in the 70s, kept her maiden name rather than taking her husband's name, and that she majored in women's studies.

I wasn't going to, but I said something. I said, "Sorry for listening, but what you're saying is actually offensive..."

They got defensive. They insisted that "We're all for equal rights!"

They said, "Great, now we just look like a**holes."

They figured I just didn't understand what or who they were talking about.

Which is true. But also beside the point.

Because they didn't understand what I was talking about.

Because even if that woman is deserving of their tirade, it isn't for those reasons.

Next time maybe I'll try to interject, "Wait, can I tell you why what you were saying is offensive?"

Narcissism

 

It soothes my soul.

Blog-ception

I'm feeling pretty blog-famous this week.

Remember that embarrassing interview I had for the SVU Communication's Department?
Did I mention that I got the internship?
Because I got the internship.
And I published my first blog post over there!

http://scoop.svu.edu/the-theory-of-the-best-local-burger/
(It was even on the home page for a hot second)

And then another blog post, which I did not write, but in which MY NAME may be found! And my face!

http://jeffbenedict.com/index.php/blog/435-make-a-choice

Basically I'm really famous this week.

That's all.

Time to go to work and try to make more money than I'm spending.